I actually have a desk, now.
No more using my laptop on my lap or on my bed.
It's perfect, my laptop is on the desk along with my video games and the TV and Xbox 360 are right next to each other.
It's perfect.
But, anyways, I am quoting this from someone's post on the B9 Board because I feel like a lot of girls are like this.
A lot of them act on their emotions and not on logic, it's so wack.
"Last night my girlfriend demanded my credit card information, so she could order netflix.
She swore she'd cancel it immediately, and that she only wanted to rent the first "free movie." I laughed at her. She told me that her credit card was in her car (her car is about 20 steps from her bedroom), and she wasn't going to get it, so I should give her mine. I told her she was ridiculous. She got offended, started crying, and then she told me I didn't care about her, or her feelings, then continued to cry, and then brought up a situation that occurred 2 weeks ago, when I didn't buy her plane ticket to visit me (she lives back home in Florida, I live in Kansas City). This situation is particularly funny because I had offered to pay for it, but I waited a day (she cried then too because I didn't care about her enough to get out of bed and find her a flight at 2 a.m.), and then, the next day, she lied to me and told me that she had bought it, so I assumed I was in the clear--wrong. She didn't actually buy it, she lied about buying it to make me feel guilty, and then, later, when I didn't buy it after she claimed to have bought it, she DID buy it, but only because I hadn't bought it for her after she told me she had already bought it. Then she cried some more and told me that I never loved her.
Today, I called her while she was talking to one of my friends, so she connected our call. My friend and I's best friends is on two weeks leave from Iraq (he's stationed in Kentucky), and we were considering visiting him. I didn't really plan actually going (he's 8 hours away and with his wife), but my friend mentioned it and said he'd go if i did. Anyway, my girlfriend continued to talk to us normally for a few minutes, then he had to go. as soon as he hung up, "what the fuck is that about? Going to Kentucky for the weekend?" "Well, I don't know, I thought about it." "DON'T YOU KNOW IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY? WHAT THE FUCK" (she works all day valentines day, as a server, and we live 1,200 miles apart). Then she starts crying, and it turns into more, "you don't care about me," and "you never loved me."
I can't win. I've tried to break up with her no less than a dozen times, but I can't do it. I've told her that I wasn't talking to her anymore, but she just won't let our relationship end. I think the only way I'll be able to break up with her is to change my phone number."
Now, almost every girl I've ever met is like this.
I'm not talking about not only in my relationship, I'm also talking about others.
I scrolled down and read this, this is someone replying about the original poster's dilemma.
Basically what I see going on with girls also:
"This is what's going to happen: She'll be crazy for a while and then she'll get better. You'll start to be happier with her, and then she'll go crazy again in a month or so and break up with you. Count on it."
Also posted by a different user:
"Girls do/say shit that they would NEVER let guys get away with."
I, and many other of my friends, can vouch for that.
It is so fucking annoying, SO FUCKING ANNOYING.
Another poster:
"She would always flip her shit and threaten to go hang out with dudes who were interested in her. For example, she would get mad at me, make me leave her apartment, come to my apartment trying to beat the hell out of me 30 minutes later, then call me at 3am crying because she couldn't believe I didn't come back over or answer her calls."
Definitely know a couple of people like this.
And, another one:
"I tell her she needs to just calm down, because she's all wound up, and then she gets even more mad. Then I ask her if she's on the rag, but more eloquently, of course. Then, I ask her if she's had a rough day (either at work, or school, depending on the situation/day) and if she wants to talk about it. All of which the replies are either hang ups, fuck yous, or both. if she hangs up, she winds up calling me back in 2 minutes and yelling, "FUCK YOU TROY." Then I give up, and tell her she has issues and needs medication because she's acting psychotic."
Other:
"Sounds a lot like my ex. I could never go hang out with friends someplace or anything because she'd think I'm checking out other girls or flirting and would text me non-stop while I was out. I couldn't even talk to my best friend(who is a girl) who now lives in Michigan, without her getting upset."
Most fucking definitely sounds like someone I know.
Again:
"I mean, she does the typical chick double standard thing like, you know, I'm not allowed to hang out with my friends during the week, and she's even gone as far as to try to give me a curfew on weekends. However, she can go out whenever she wants, and that's fine because 'I go out all the time.'"
I'm not saying all girls are like this, because I won't ever know.
But, from hearing from other friends, people, stuff that happens to me and reading people's posts, I believe that a BIG majority of girls are like this.
I'm going to say 85% are like this.
And, if you're reading this and are a girl, take out some of the things and replace them with stuff you would get mad at, then rethink what you just thought about.
Because I know a lot of people will read this and be like, "Fuck no, I'm a chill girlfriend."
Trust me, you're probably not.
Also, I know a lot of guy's are crazy, too.
I've met some, I know it.
But, our way of thinking is very different.
Not a lot of our choices are on emotion, somtimes they're more thought out, sometimes they aren't.
But, it's not based on emotion.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
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